Have you ever found yourself sort of awakened from your present life experience, pondering the questions, “How did I get to this point? Who have I become? What happened to the life I dreamed of?”
It’s a pretty sh*#ty feeling to realize that the life you are living is NOT the life you had envisioned for yourself.
I’ve been there. Many times. I know.
But guess what, it’s not the end of the world, or at least, it doesn’t have to be.
Facing a crisis or a challenge can be interpreted as a reason to put up walls, shut down, and defend the fortress.
OR crises and challenges can be opportunities for us dig deep, search our souls and make new meaning of our lives.
“Everything is figureoutable” as Marie Forleo so wisely reminds us.
AND, change is constant.
So, when our experience feels completely wrong, devastating and beyond repair, we can always remember that there is light at the end of the tunnel.
We have the power to CHOOSE how we respond.
When the proverbial sh*t hits the fan, there are three steps to move from where you are to where you want to be.
First, ACKNOWLEDGE what it is that feels so out of alignment, so messed up, so horrible. Without accepting or rejecting this truth, simply acknowledge that this is the version of reality you are currently experiencing. A version that you know you want to change.
Second, CLARIFY what you DO WANT in your reality and in your life. How do you want your life to look, how do you want to feel, what do you want to experience? Intentionally and wholeheartedly FOCUS on what you WANT.
Third, take the steps to TRANSFORM your life experience. Hold strong to the knowing that you are powerful and wise and capable. Remember that your thoughts, words, and deeds guide you to the life you want to live. Choose wisely. Focus on the good. And follow through…be willing to give your life the effort, attention and love you so deserve!
If you are ready and willing to A.C.T., you will become exactly who you want to be, you will live the life of your dreams, and you will feel in perfect alignment with your best self, overflowing with love and appreciation….ready to transform the next challenge into an opportunity for continued growth!
So, tell me, what life vision do you want to revitalize? What life do you want for yourself?
Take the first step now…post a comment to ACKNOWLEDGE that you want something different, something more, something…
Be bold and courageous and raise your awareness.
I’m in this with you…ever growing, learning, re-figuring, re-visioning, striving to be ever better…more peaceful, loving, and kind.
With love & support to take your first steps,
Denise
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